By Meg Butler
Some guys can be surprisingly clueless when it comes to sex. If he’s still making these beginner mistakes, it could be time to have that awkward conversation about why doing it with him just isn’t doing it for you.
1. Fore play is always necessary: Instant rip-your-clothes-off chemistry is rare. Women are just wired to warm up. But if he’s willing to put in the time it’s better for everyone involved.
2. There are other moves than the Jackhammer: It’s fine in rotation, but hammering away from start to finish is a classic rookie mistake. It’s supposed to be a marathon, not a sprint.
3. Don’t stop if its still working: If it’s not broke, don’t fix it. Yes, even if you’re getting tired. If you mess up on the crescendo it could take a while to circle back.
4. How to put in work up to: Breasts are not stress balls. Nipples are not light switches. We’re not sure why it takes some guys so long to figure out what works.
5. Down town is a two way street: Oh, you don’t really do that? What a coincidence. Suddenly I don’t really do it either. You get as good as you give.
6. Don’t push her head down: We know it’s down there. We know that you want it. We also reserve the right to decide when it’s going to happen so calm down already.
7. Don’t be afraid to take control: When in doubt, he shouldn’t be afraid to take the reigns. It’s a good way to turn up the heat in the bedroom if things start to cool down. Case in point? Every page in ’50 Shades of Gray.’
8. There are more than three sex positions: The standards are great, but you’ve got to switch it up every now and again. If he Googled a few new moves things would get a lot more exciting.
9. You have to take your socks off: Unless you’re Tom Cruise, rocking with your socks on is one of the unsexiest moves out there. It may not kill the mood completely, but it will seriously cool it down.
10. You cant get up the moment its over: A man can mumble something about getting up early for work, but no excuse will make up for the feeling that we just got used.
11. Don’t make her do all the work: No one likes a lazy lover. A man who won’t put in any work doesn’t deserve to reap any of the benefits.
12. Nobody believes your ‘Whoops’: We all know that that wasn’t a mistake. That door is by invite only and trying to sneak your way in is not a cool move.
13. Be gentle with your hands: You’re not clicking a page that won’t load. It’s a sensitive area. Trim your nails and take your time.
14. Mirrors in the bedroom are a huge turn off: A man who wants to spend your time together staring at himself is likely to be just as selfish with his sexual moves.
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