So let me paint this picture. It’s the morning of the February 14 and your beau is still in bed. You make him his favourite breakfast and leave a Valentine’s Day greeting card on the dining table.
You get in the shower and he wakes up. You kiss each other and he helps you slip on your favourite thong and lace bra just so he can take it off later in the evening when you get back from work. You put on your favourite perfume, give him a warm and tender kiss before leaving for work…
Awww, how sweet. If you want to be a total cliché that is. We understand Valentine’s is more of showing tenderness than it is hot and steamy but who says you always have to play by the rules? In fact, breaking the rules just makes it sexier 😉
Here are things you can do this Valentine’s to spice up your night.
1. Do away with your regular sex thong
This is your chance to fulfill your partner’s fantasy. Don’t waste it on your regular ‘sex me up’ undies.
Rather, surprise him with a Victoria’s Secret gift card which says ‘you pick’. I guarantee he wouldn’t be able to wait to see you in his pick of sexy lingerie.
2. Leave ‘insinuating’ messages
Rather than your usual happy Valentine’s Day greeting card, leave notes for him in specific places.
For example, we know the European Champions League is resuming same day. Why not leave a note which says ‘turn me on instead’ on the remote control.
You could also text him from work saying all the naughty things you’d like to do to him and vice versa when you both get home.
3. Forfeit the rose petals and leave a trail of clothes instead
We get it’s a romantic holiday but that doesn’t mean it can’t be sexy as well. Do away with the cute but predictable rose petals.
Tease him from the living room all the way to the bedroom by dropping each item of the outfit you wore that day.
Bear in mind, the note on the remote correlates more with a trail of clothes rather than rose petals. The former is likely to get his attention.
4. Get thoughtful with your gift
DO NOT get him handkerchief and boxers please! It’s a mood killer and our men can’t overemphasize enough how much they hate this wretched and thoughtless ‘gift’.
You might feel your partner understands that you don’t know how to shop for men or don’t have much money, but there are other creative ways to gift him.
Get thoughtful. Cook his favourite meal naked, give him a massage with scented candles burning and his favourite playlist serenading him.
Pamper him. Men need love too.
5. Cross something off your couple bucket list
Do something you’ve both always wanted to try. It could be bedroom related or not, but the bottom line is for you to get adventurous.
It builds heat and excitement and trust me, you’d have such great memories of that night.
Be a sexy team and do something out of the usual.
6. Go erotic
Engaging yourselves in some sort of foreplay in form of a game can be a way of spicing up your night. Games like strip twister or ones which involve you eating or licking food items off each other’s body. This is a sure way to turn your partner on.
Also, while we’re on the topic of erotica, why not dump the idea of watching ‘Valentine’s Day’ and visit the adult movie section. You could learn a thing or two from watching.
7. Create a playlist
As hot and sizzling as I want your night to be, romance can also be a way of enhancing this goal.
So while you’ve set the mood and shown your partner how badly you crave them, don’t fail to let them know how much you love more than their body.
Create a playlist of romantic songs which describe how you truly feel about them. A song like Bruno Mars‘ ‘Versace on the Floor’ is a perfect example of sexual and romantic.
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