Men always have a lot to say about what women should be doing better during sex but they often forget that there are some things they do that they really need to put an end to. Since we know that most women feel sort of shy about speaking up about their sexual needs and preferences, we are helping to give the men a nudge in the right direction.
Here are five things men really need to stop doing in bed during sex.
- Diving straight to the sex: We get that we are hot or you are in the mood but just diving right to the act is not only boring but is also a buzz killer. The boobs are there for your pleasure, and going down should be something you do without being asked. When you go through the motions of foreplay, your woman is both lubricated and in the mood to really enjoy sex.
- Paying attention to only their orgasm: This goes without saying but men who do this need to be CANCELLED. If sex is not bringing pleasure to the two people involved in it, then what is the point exactly? And ladies, if a man gets there and you don’t, speak up, he is not quite done with his work yet.
- Trying kinky stuff without telling you:We are not asking you to just stop all the kinky stuff, but at least let us know right before you try to get into the butt hole. Also spanking a woman during sex or pulling her hair (particularly braids) without a prior conversation to that act should please stop. Let’s talk about your fantasies before you start enacting them on us.
- Mimicking porn: We don’t have to notice the moment we are getting it on that you have a subscription to Porn Hub, XnXX, X Videos or any other porn sites. Men sometimes need to be reminded that this is real life and not all women are about that extra (acted) porn behaviour like pounding one million times per minute (it really does not help anyone).
- Sleeping immediately after sex: Trust me, I did a survey before writing this and every man needs to hear this “Sleeping immediately after sex is simply unacceptable”. A lot of women hate this because the question here is what am I supposed to do now that you are asleep. A quick tip: even if you are going to do this, take a few minutes to cuddle and pillow talk first.
I’m sure the ladies will agree that there are a lot of other things men do in bed that is really not great for them. Here is one important thing that women really need to know – if he is not satisfying you sexually, let him know. Since this is our top 5 things men have to stop doing in bed, let us know what yours are in the comment section below.
