What Is Your Sexual No-No?

By Hazel

Sex is like the Holy Grail, we all want it but we are afraid to talk about it or even look for it. You can say that sex is one of the most controversial and popular topics ever generated. If you talk about it, then you are a slut! People are literally embarrassed about the subject.

But, just the thought of it has got your body all tingly. Ironic huh? We love it and we do it.  But have you ever wondered what a sexual taboo will be to you?  Just last month, a group of people on Twitter were discussing what they would do in bed and some of their sexual fantasies. It was an interesting thread I assure you. But somewhere in their conversation, it drifted. The question became ‘what is it your partner will ask you to do that will be totally horrible for you?’  Most of them just said they would do anything to keep their relationship going even if it hurts them.

By the end of that day, a thought crossed my mind. Do people have a sexual no-no? What is the limit? What would you consider as a sexual taboo? So, I carried my tatafo fingers and asked a couple of people both on Facebook and Twitter the same question. What is your sexual taboo? Their response? Well, that is what I call an amazing read:

Homosexuality – Why would I want to shag a guy? It’s a complete turn off – Jide

Anal Crap – Who does that? What’s the pleasure from that? – Femi

Bestiality – Is it that all human beings have gone extinct that someone would like to have a sexual relationship with an animal. – Felicia

Paedophilia – I love MJ but dude, you freaked me out! Kids? Come on, that is not cool – Sandra

Any sexual activity that is not acceptable to both parties. – Andrew

Threesomes – The two men & me kind even though I fantasize about it. – Funmi

Nymphomaniac – So, you are so sexually active that you don’t know how to control yourself? Come on! – Franca

Pornography and Sex Toys – What is with men and toys? I find them interesting but totally disgusting. I can never understand how watching two people make out is a turn on for anyone, eeewww! – Augusta

Sleeping with a married woman is a definite NO! I think it’s insulting and an act of desperation – Kenny

Strip Tease – It makes me feel objectified. – Tosyn

Dirty Talk – I had rather you shut up and do the act. I know people will assume I am stiff or boring but, please don’t tell me, just do it. Actions speak louder than words. – Chizoba

Phone sex – Really? I don’t even get the concept! – Lara

Incest – Your own relation? Why? Why? Why? – Linda

Bondage Sex – I like it crazy but not dirty or even painful. – Maria

Anal Sex – Men, that is serious pain. Why would anyone want to put his fellow human being through such excruciating pain! But just for the record, sometimes, taboos are just what they are stemming from social values – Wale

Sadomasochism – I don’t do pain and I don’t inflect pain on other people, period! – Chris

Well, I think that this is a perfect example of ‘one man’s soup is another man’s poison.’ I know lots of people who would find everything on this list totally ok. I mean, I got lots of responses that said ‘nothing’, ‘I have no sexual taboo’, ‘anything is all good to me’.

I guess we all have our taboos and some have more than us but either way, if something doesn’t work for you, speak up so that your partner knows and doesn’t put you through hell. Keeping quiet isn’t good for a healthy relationship.