Most people never talk about how difficult it must be for men to find the women of their dreams. We assume that it is easier for men because they should be able to order the shots. Yet, even when you are the typical perfect bachelor, it can sometimes be hard to find a girl that compliments you and matches the standards you have set for yourself.
However, we will help you find the perfect woman for you on or before Valentine’s Day by giving you a list of potential places to find potential ‘bae’.
1. Places of worship: The church or mosque is the perfect place to find a woman who has similar values as you. You can get a feel of her style and who she is by watching her during services. Check out her hair, shoes and how she smells to know if she matches up to your standards. It’s a bonus that you won’t have to worry about a religious divide. Just try not to lose focus on the prayers that took you there in the first place.
2. Expensive Hotels and Restaurants: Contrary to what many men think, women love to spoil themselves, especially if they can afford to. One of the best places to find a comfortable, independent, career-driven woman is at an expensive restaurant or hotel. She could be there for several reasons, including a meeting, needing a night out or even to find her perfect man. You may be lucky and run into someone open to dating and then take it from there.
3. Wedding Receptions: These ‘owambes’ are the perfect way to meet someone. Women generally look better (Nigerian women dress to kill) and are more expectant and open to meeting someone at wedding receptions. It also makes for a highly romantic ‘how we met’ story. It will remain the most certified way to meet someone special for a long time. Remember to stay open and start with great conversation.
4. Social Media DMs: If you can’t seem to meet a woman you genuinely like in person, you may need to take the search to social media. If you find someone who catches your eyes, do not be too shy to send them a DM. However, you need to make sure you don’t come across as weird, stalker-y, or even slutty. Start the conversation with more than just ‘hello’ and maybe even a nice funny story – story, not a pickup line.
5. Shopping Malls: Ladies love to shop, hangout, and watch movies – and this all happens at a shopping mall. That is why the mall is a premium spot to find the woman of your dreams because you get a chance to pick from a crowd of women. Make sure you look nice without being overdressed and that you smell irresistible. Women will be inclined to speak to you if they like how you look, talk and smell at first glance.
6. The Airport: If she can afford to fly anywhere, then you at least know that she can stand on her own two feet financially. It would be great if you are both on the same flight. You would have the whole trip to get to know each other. It doesn’t matter if it’s the international or national airport, the point is – she can at the very least afford to pay for her tickets. So go ahead and enjoy your trips, knowing that the woman you’ve been waiting for may just be seated right next to you.
7. Dating Sites: If all else fails, take it to the dating sites. If a lady is also on the site, it must mean that you both at least agree that you need to be out there and dating. Make sure you create an attractive profile, using a gorgeous picture and vivid descriptions about yourself. Prepare to pay for the dates you set up and have an open mind when you eventually meet the lady. If she turns out to be too weird, RUN!
8. Comment Section: If you want to know if someone at least believes in the same things you do, check out what they say in the comment sections of pages like Netng, Neusroom, Orin, or 234Star. It is a great way to start up conversations with possible ‘bae’ and then direct the discussions into the DMs if it is going well. You never know if you would be saying months down the line that you met the love of your life in the weirdest way possible – the comment section of Netng’s page.
While these options may seem a little weird, trust us, they are practical places to find beautiful, kind, financially-independent women. So go out into the world and let the search begin!