By Tolu Books
Book Title: 101 WAYS TO AVOID PRE-MARITAL SEX
Author Deola Ojo
It will be very difficult, I mean difficult to say NO to sex when you have tasted it as a Single or Youth. I prayed for the grace of God on that issue every day and guess what, He has been helping me to stay pure by bringing people and books around me that change my focus from sex to something more positive. So, my advice to the never tasted sex singles is not to venture into it, because it’s a fight that will later turn to a night mare even when you get marriage. Am not trying to scare you! But it will take God’s grace.
Apart from pre-marital sex being a big problem, our lack of ability to say No when peer pressure set in from friends is something we should also work against at all levels. Why should you say ‘Yes’ from pressure from friends when your mind or spirit is actually saying ‘No’, why should you say Yes to buying a cloth of N10,000 when your income is not even up to that, why should you drink or smoke when you know that you will tell lies about it, why should you say YES ?
You should be called a big fool if you say Yes to everything that comes your way all in the name of Big Boy or Big Girl, I laugh at you! Know this like your ABC, it’s not what happens around you that determine who you are but it’s what happens inside of you that show what you are on the outside. To change what happens around you, change your thinking.
Recently, I read a book titled 101 WAYS TO AVOID PRE-MARITAL SEX by Deola Ojo and one of the ways to say No to pre-marital sex is to avoid peer pressure, don’t you think that is interesting! While I was reading that chapter, the story of a young Nigerian lady who had 26 abortions because of peer pressure and ignorance struck my mind. She said when she was sixteen when her friends finally helped her set her own fantasy that was looking for freedom free by introducing her to a guy and telling her that there is nothing terrible in pre-marital sex. I believe this book will help you stay away from friends like that and say No to their pressure.
Another way the author also suggests saying No to per-marital sex is COMMON SENSE, the common sense the writer is talking about in this book is common sense that is not common to guys who think they can hold themselves sexually when a lady is dressing or naked in front of you. When you see that happening in front of you, run like a madman, that I will call common sense. It will be common sense to a lady who is not moved by the car the guy drives or the things the guy buys for her but by the content of what the guy possesses.
101 WAYS TO AVOID PRE-MARITAL SEX is a ten chapter book with 102 pages that has chapters like Battle of the mind, Avoid office Affairs, Mentors, The power of Music, and lot more will teach you how to stay off sex when you are still searching. One other thing I discovered from the book that will help you say No to sex is to WORSHIP GOD, that sound funny right? It sounds it’s not possible, but you can discover it from the book and get blessed. Later!
