We’ve all heard the warnings; don’t date a Nigerian girl! She won’t split the bills on a date, all she wants is your money.
She’ll become the child you never had (or an additional child if you do have) yet, many of these men who are based abroad come back home to look for wives. Why is this so if we are all so awful?
A certain reader of Thenetng sent her relationship ordeal to us on Instagram, asking whether she should dump her financially challenged boyfriend.
She was at crossroads on whether to leave her ‘great’ boyfriend who was unfortunate to be one of the victims of the country’s current economic downturn, or to stay and hope for him to find his footing again.
Must say I was astonished with the comments. Most of the commenters were ladies who scolded the her for even thinking in that line and some even went as far as insulting the her.
The advises were contrary to the popular opinions men have about Nigerian women. Majority advised her to be supportive of her man in this hard time and to grow with him.
Nigerian men should be careful and stop thinking these ‘peaceful’ foreign women are salvation because the fact remains they have a higher divorce rate than we do over here.
This could also come from the fact that we imbibe religion with our marriages thereby creating a solid foundation for such marriages.
A video went viral of a Nigerian man abroad who caught his white wife cheating yet was asked to leave the house as it is her house.
Such a thing can hardly happen in Nigeria and you men know it.
Do you want a submissive wife? Or the kind that can do and say anything to you because it’s her country and she’s female? Choose wisely.
