Toke Makinwa’s estranged husband Maje Ayida has publicly apologized for his alleged misdemeanour, a month after news broke that he impregnated ex-girlfriend, Anita Solomon.
Nigerian Entertainment Today readers passionately share their views on what many consider a belated but appropriate move.
See comments (mostly advice actually) below and join the conversation.
Stella Nneke: Make peace with thy God, yourself, forgive your husband and take him back. No marriage is made of Rose flower petals alone, they come embedded with thorns. Never get tired of taking your husbands name continually to the feet of the Lord, he would make all things beautiful for you. Trust God blindly to turn this around. Block your ears to those that would call you names. It is well with you.
Elma Peter: Madam Toke, forgive please. Wedding is for a day while marriage is for life. Shun bad counsellors, they will go back to their own houses and lick their wounds in secret and come out with a straight face as if all is well. Though your spouse might have derailed and drank from strange and stolen waters, have mercy on him. We all have our shortcomings here and there but God forgives us.
Bernard A Idowu: The name Maje in Yoruba means Never. Toke should leave an Idiot alone because he wil do it to the new girl.
Chinedumokonji1: He will continue to hurt you, he has always been hurting you and will continue, you know that, but if you love him enough, forgive him and go back to him, he is forever tied to that woman that has a child for him, you know that, you should also know he’s a Delta man, they are like that, if you can’t forget it, I’d say forgive him and move on, you will find someone else.
Adeyosoye Bankole: Truth be told, what the guy did was bad but will she leave and marry another person? Does she know what the next person can do? To forgive is divine.
Mzz Annie Ugorji: That’s her business, but if she eventually accepts him back, she should really work on herself. She should have time for her husband, respect and honour him and give him children.
del4dur: Toke please take your husband back okay? Forgive and forget. Everyone you see on this earth goes through same relationship/ marital issues. Like I said before, you owe no one no explanation it’s your private life and should be kept private. We are pleading on behalf of Maje. Please take him back. You both have a very bright future and life together. Always embrace God like you’ve always done and great things will keep happening for you. I’ll always admire your person. Take care love
Aborisade Jesulademi: What the man did was not good But she should forgive him.
Mummyzee3315: Like his apology changes anything… I’m here waiting patiently for the day Africans will beg a man to take his cheating wife back.
Onyedikachi Jossy Juliet: Madam take your marriage issue out of media because there’s no marriage without lapses. So my dear take him back, he is still your hubby. Find a place in your heart to forgive him and forget like God does to us too. Don’t give room for that mistake again my dear.
Samuel Falana: Divorce him and keep trying other men may be you will find an angel.
Meecy Silas: Mistakes are bound to happen in marriage but love and forgiveness is what makes it stand and stay forever. Please forgive him so you can be at peace. Once you have done that you will see joy unspeakable.
Zainab Ige: Yea but I think it’s her fault because most of these celebrities ‘no dey get time’ for their hubby.
Sharom O Chancellor: Why should she?!
Godian Elin Hell: They started the journey together, they should end it together.
Emmanuel Minkah: Forgive him and take him back…remember those telling you to move on never knew how you guys started and the ups and downs you’ve been through. My advice is: be with your hubby
Ajayi Nifemi Oritoke: I wish they’ll urge her to do the same if she was the one that got pregnant by her ex
Dposhnezza: Everyone deserves a second chance and I pray you guys work this out as man and wife…@tokemakinwa God is your strength my barbie,it will soon be over.
Missyfabby: Toke, forgive Maje. But please you need anew man. It will be a life of trauma – you have a step son! Not everybody Can be like Annie abeg
