By Osagie Alonge
- Queen Ure Okezie
It might be a cheap publicity stunt or ‘straight from the heart talk’? We will never know what Queen Ure Okezie is up to but it seems like the Nigerian singer Soul E’s ex-wife seems to be cleaning out her closet.
When she took to her Facebook account to narrate her life’s history last week, Ure talks about getting dis-virgined at 23, ditching her Christian values; falling in and out of love and her current quest to find a man who she might not necessarily love but is sure will take care of her financially. Read through below…
(Sigh), strange thoughts on my mind. Born with a silver spoon in my mouth yep my dad was a minister in Gowon’s regime when I was born. Last born, only girl, never lacked anything, got born again at 10 in FGGC Owerri, grew up with very strong Christian values.
At 14, I was done with secondary school. Did my youth service at 21, shortly after I started working in Diamond Bank, then Zenith, then Platinum, then First Atlantic (Finbank). Rosy life but full of hard work, my dad instilled that into us being a medical doctor. I forgot to say, I studied Physics in the university (B.sc), my life on campus was lectures and church, I actually started preaching seriously from secondary school. Typical S.U all through campus days at UJ (Unijos).
Now my love life, got ‘dis-virgined’ at 23 just as I was getting into Diamond bank…well I did it out of curiosity and a feeling of ‘Na only me be Christian?’. In the process in my nativity I got pregnant twice and removed both meanwhile I did the stuff few times. Small, small, the clock started ticking, at 29 honestly I don’t know how I got married to this guy that I don’t love, good looking, rich and all (he’s presently in the US) I married him to please my dad but as soon as my dad died my brother came and got me out of there (long story), this sweet ‘good’ girl had suddenly turned a divorcee!!
No kids because I didn’t want to (have any) since I didn’t love him. Tried getting married again but this time to a much younger guy who claimed he loved me helplessly and I went and believed him, I put in everything as in everything, there was so much money at my end and the love was flowing, shortly after I had a small financial setback he took off. I’ve always believed in love. I’m a strong believer in love, I even tried another relationship where I was also the bread winner but when I couldn’t meet a certain demand he took off. (Laughs) I’ve never gone out with anyone because of money.
If I love you, I love you. If I don’t love you, I don’t love you. I really love family and would want to be happily married with kids. I’ve never been one to date married guys but now I want to change. I feel like putting love aside to date for selfish reasons. I’ve not started but I’m seriously contemplating it, or better still get a bastardly wealthy guy and just stick with him and let him look after me (I’m actually tired of working hard). If I end up having kids fine, if not I’ll eventually adopt. I’m actually tired of being a good girl. (Laughs) because, lots of people actually think I’m ‘bad’ anyway so it won’t make a difference if I just become BAD. #JustThinking Happy Subsidy.
18 comments
Satan has just confessed, let wait and watch the cookies crumble
As a single woman,I know where she is coming frm. We all watched d Soul E fiasco n knew wot he was in for. We weren’t surprised dat he took off when d well ran dry. Truthfully I used d loser rader dat she should have employed with those guys to handle my relationships. Your problem Ure is too many Romance novels n films. Only few are lucky to find true love but dat doesn’t mean it comes without wahala. Try to find a matured guy who will be ur friend first, also he has to be a man in every sense of d word not a tick of sponge. And pls stop d desperate act. U r a fine woman, love urself honestly first n eveything will follow. God bless you
Who cares?
What a pity,but would hv been silent about it cos its really not a good story to tell
Dis gal is not normal….
It’s a very pathetic story, I lack words to say, she was born ia a strong christian home & maybe even tired of readind her Bible & praying to God. All the same, she shouldn’t waste herself. God’ll do a miracle in her life that she never expect. I’ll personally take my time to pray for her & God’s willing, she’ll encounter her world. 2012 is a year of Devine Overflow, it’s our year of Extraordinary Achievement. IT IS WELL.
Peeps, peeps….who is throwing the first stone here…hissss. This is a lady bold enough to say her stories and y’all are out there blabbing. How long shall we continue to be hypocites, how long?
This I know, she will rise again and she will find that love that will make her forget all the hurts. Listen to me sweet, you will rise again, I believe in love too and I know it exists, you will find it but it might be where you do not expect, money or no money.
Cheer up!
Ure be strong. God will take care of you. You are a beautiful woman, you will find a good man. Be strong! Raise your head high. We love you. (((hugs)))
this is d devil spitting from d pit of hell, i will advice u don’t get despair, hold on to God, he never disappoints, its better to be good than turn bad, coz the publicity could be difficult to handle.
Don’t mind a fling wiv de looser though lmfao
U re bold I must confess,who amongs us can openly say out our past or our inner most secret please don’t crucify this poor Queen,God is a merciful God he will compensate her with true Love and d end of it all will be Testimony.Enjoy my dear
Look at her dress, geezz.. U aint gonna find true love lukin like that! It’s onli one thing u’re gonna find ..!
Methinks when u ought to have bn lukin for a man u wer gettin ur priorities wrong. Evry body has had a chance to love sm nvr tuk it while twas ther
Sum Men are very wicked but My dear i like you but plz u whouldnt ve say wat up to out lik dat, bcos now dey re vry ready for u… Tink b4 u act, u can still go back to ur christain life…nomather ur age u wil stil see sumone dat luvs u…..God will help u.
What a bad experience! Anyway that’s part of life. Life is not a bird of roses. Just take your time and use. Your head rather than heart. U r such a damsel angel that a guy of twenties could still fall for.
Back to your knees and pray fervently to your Lord for guidance as well as forgiveness. Never engage in anything that will soil the beautiful name you made for yourself and your family.
Wishing you best of luck…… Remember pple like me still care for U.
Just try….. God will guide you. Follow your head but not heart.
Karen for u Ure.
Cheap publicity dey run belle o
Holy Ure!
Glad I don’t have ta follow em with a pooper scooper.
Could this her lattest declaration to go the bad way bornnee out
out of frustration? God have mercy on her.